Respite & Activity Clubs

Specialist activity clubs and respite services give your child a chance to have fun in a supportive environment — and give you time to recharge.

Typical cost

£5 – £40 per session

NHS wait

N/A (social care referral)

Session length

2 – 4 hours

Finding respite and activity clubs

Every family needs a break sometimes, and children with SEND need activities where they can have fun without the pressure of fitting in. Respite services and specialist activity clubs offer both — a chance for parents to recharge, and a chance for children to enjoy sport, arts, outdoor activities, and socialising in an environment designed around their needs.

What they do

Respite services provide short breaks — anything from a few hours to overnight stays — where trained staff look after your child. Activity clubs run regular sessions (after school, weekends, or school holidays) with activities adapted for children with additional needs. Staff understand SEND and know how to support communication, sensory needs, and behaviour. Ratios are typically much lower than mainstream clubs.

When to seek help

If you're exhausted from constant care demands, if your child can't access mainstream clubs or activities, if siblings need one-on-one time, or if you simply need a few hours to yourself, respite and specialist clubs can be a lifeline. There's no shame in needing support — looking after yourself means you can better look after your child.

What to expect

Most services carry out an initial assessment or registration meeting to understand your child's needs, interests, communication style, and any medical requirements. Sessions are structured but flexible, with high staff ratios. Good providers will keep you updated with photos and feedback. Your child might take a few sessions to settle, which is completely normal.

Typical costs

Costs vary widely. Some Local Authority respite services are free for families who meet eligibility criteria (usually requiring a social care assessment). Charity-run clubs often charge nominal fees (£5 to £15 per session). Private activity clubs may charge £15 to £40 per session. Short Breaks funding from your Local Authority may cover or subsidise costs — it's worth asking.